In todayâs episode of My Mama Summer, we dive deep into the awkward and vulnerable reality of making friendships as an adult. Since moving to San Miguel de Allende just a month ago, Iâve found myself navigating the complexities of forming new connectionsâand it's brought up feelings I hadnât expected. It's almost like being a teenager again, filled with self-doubt and over-analysing every interaction.
I open up about the anxious self-talk Iâve been battling: questioning if Iâm "too much" in my new friendships, the internal voice that picks apart my conversations after the fact, and the desperation for connection that comes after years of isolation. This episode isnât just about friendshipsâitâs about self-reflection, unpacking childhood conditioning, and challenging the inner voice that tells us we arenât enough.
I also talk about how this experience ties into the "good daughter syndrome" Iâve been working throughâhow that critical, internalised voice stems from a mother wound many of us carry. If youâve ever felt anxious in new relationships, or if your inner critic has held you back, I think youâll resonate deeply with this conversation. Letâs talk about the fear of being "too much," how motherhood impacts friendships, and what it means to show up fully as ourselvesâmessy parts and all.
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Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.
Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (â â https://truthiverse.comâ â ) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: â â https://links.onlinefreedomhackers.com/mymamasummer
